Lately, a few different people have referred to me as a "socialite" and "party girl". It wasn't meant in a negative way, but it did serve to make me laugh.
Let's look at the terms closer, shall we?
Socialite - is a person who participates in social activities and spends a significant amount of time entertaining and being entertained at fashionable upper-class events (according to Wikipedia).
I know nothing about fashion and have no interest in it. And an upper-class event to me would be going out to dinner at some place that didn't give me packets of ketchup on the side of my Big Mac.
Nope! Not me. Next...
Party Girl - a girl who wants to party all the time, party all the time, party all the tiiiiime (according to Eddie Murphy.)
Truthfully, I wonder if people would be at all surprised to know how much time I spend in sweatpants and old band tshirts, hanging out on my couch with the dog, a bag of chips and some Helluva Good Dip. (Yeah, I just name-dropped. It's cuz I'm a socialite.)
While I do like to go out with friends for a few beers, meet new people and make up songs about their names and occupations, I don't necessarily spend all of my time "out". I'm very social, but also a homebody.
I'm a Social Loner Dork.
And tonight I'll be going to see Mogwai with a friend... not because I'm a party girl. Because I'm a chick that digs live music and good times.
So Eddie Murphy, if you'll kindly change your lyrics to "my girl wants to party some of the time, party some of the time, party some of the tiiiime", then yeah.
I'd say it described me perfectly.